CAREGIVER

Reflections on the challenges and rewards of being a caregiver for a loved one

It’s been nearly six years since I moved in to my Mom’s home to become her primary caregiver, when she was diagnosed with Parkinson’s Disease. These are some reflections along the way, on this journey of caregiving.

C ompassion

In order to be a caregiver, one needs to have a sense of compassion. Kindness and consideration are key factors that help a caregiver be successful in fulfilling that role. Caregiving is a challenging job that can change daily or weekly, as situations and circumstances change. A sense of understanding, concern, and true empathy are helpful traits in providing for the needs of another.

A lways

When taking on the role of caregiver, it is important to realize that the responsibilty is constant and permanent. It is an “always” job, meaning it can be all-consuming. Even if you have the luxury of downtime, a chance to get away, your mind will be continually occupied with things to be done, ways to improve, how best to provide the care you are rendering.

R epetitive

The work of a caregiver can be repetitious. It can also be tiresome, tedious, and oft-times downright monotonous. But the repetitive nature is from the caregiver’s perspective. For the one receiving care, the repetition can be extremely beneficial. A routine is something they can follow. Doing things the same way helps the individual with rote memory and muscle recall.

E motional